The Last Good Breath

January 10th had been a good day. I had a few visitors, which always lifts my spirits, I had been working on a few orders for my Etsy shop, and we were getting back into a routine again after Christmas break. I went to bed a little early because I had worn myself out a bit.

A few hours later I woke unable to use my muscles to get a big enough breath. I couldn’t swallow, couldn’t breath, and knew I needed help fast. I quickly woke Mark, and motioned for help, and then got far away from our sleeping littlest hoping not to frighten him awake. That was about all I had left, and I collapsed on the floor, trying to conserve energy. It wasn’t long before everything faded to gray and I could hardly hear.

I was vaguely aware of the paramedic boots that tromped across the floor and scooped me up, carrying me into the night air. The next thing I was aware of as the stretcher bounced across the potholes of town was the excruciating pain and sickness that crept over me as the paramedic pushed a full dose of Narcan, throwing my body into instant withdrawal from my chronic pain medications, bringing on a slew of muscle spasms, and constant vomiting. My fight to breathe became more desperate as I choked on my own vomit gasping for each breath.

After some agonizing time in the ER, I lost all touch with reality, and woke later the next day in the ICU, biting and choking on the hard breathing tube that was down my throat, my hair a mess of blood and vomit. My respiratory muscles had weakened to the point that I could not breathe as deeply as my body needed me to, and I had been sedated and intubated.

We had already been having conversations with my pulmonologist and met with the surgeon to discuss it being time for a tracheostomy, so it was natural for these topics to surface again. They actually had time to do the surgery for me the next day. At first I objected, panicked at the rush of it all, and the lack of having my mind wrapped around it. After some reassuring conversations with friends who are doctors though, it was clear this timing was divine, and it was time to go ahead. I asked to be further sedated until surgery, so I didn’t have to spend the long hours fighting the tube.

Along with my wingman, my “Mama Sandy” was there with me to encourage and read scripture with me, and despite the embarrassing state of myself, I welcomed the presence of my dear pastor as he came to pray with me.

Despite the rush of it all, I felt peace; held in my fear and my questions, and comforted that God was walking every step along with me.

The wait for surgery felt long, but finally it was time, and I smooched my hubby as they rolled me away for a new airway. I was immediately more comfortable upon waking; the tubes removed from my mouth and throat, and now just one directly into my airway through the front of my neck.

A few days later I was transferred to a rehabilitation hospital, where I have remained for the past two weeks. It has been steps forward and steps back, and a tremendous amount of boredom and missing my babies, but each day is one day closer to home and this new way of life. My trach and vent have provided me much more relaxation with my breathing, and as we learn the routines it brings us more confidence managing this ourselves at home.

I cannot wait to get back to my family and my tribe… that comes next!